Hvorfor påstår enkelte at kvinner fra Thailand er bedre enn kvinner fra Norge?

Fant et innlegg på nettet som jeg ønsket å dele:

http://bloggarkiv.sol.no/blogg/hvorfor-pastar-enkelte-kvinner-fra-thailand-er-bedre-enn-kvinner-fra-norge

I et tidligere innlegg skrev jeg : Skal mannen fritas for husarbeid når kvinnen går hjemme i permisjon? Dette ble det mange kommentarer på og det som forundret meg mest var de som svarte at man burde skaffe seg en kvinne fra Thailand.

Noen mente de hadde det mye bedre etter at de hadde fått seg en kvinne fra Thailand, norske kvinner var late, kravstore og sure og lite sex var det også. Kvinner fra Thailand var blide, pliktoppfyllende og ikke gnuen på sex.

Noen mente at enkelte Thailandske damer ikke hadde det bra( hushjelp og sex-slaver) mens andre mente mange hadde det godt. Så hva er det som er så mye bedre med Thailandske kvinner i forhold til oss norske kvinner? Har de Thailanske kvinnene det godt her i Norge eller blir de utnyttet?

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Jeg ønsker å ta dette temaet opp på en måte som kan virke støtende på Norske damer.Og provosere dere volsomt. Men hensikten er å få dere til å tenke over hvordan dere behandler menn.

Fritak for husarbeid.

De fleste moderne menn i dag tar husarbeid .Jeg kjenner til forhold der mannen er den som holder orden i huset, økonomien og barna.

At kvinner opplever at dem ikke får gehør på at dem krever mer i forholdet.Kan det skyldes at du virkelig legger merke til hva mannen egentlig gjør for deg?

Når mannen klipper plen, maler huset, skrur opp hyllen du kjøpte på IKEA men ikke kan sette opp selv osv osv.

Det er alltid en fordelig av arbeidsoppgaver i et forhold. At kvinner mener at dem skal overføre husarbeidet til menn.

Spør deg selv, hva gjør mannen for deg? Hvilken oppgaver har han gjort den seneste tiden som du IKKE har tenkt så mye over.

 

HER ER "CLUET" - Hvis jeg gjør noe for min Thailandske kone. Så er tilbakemeldingen volsom.

Hun takker meg og er så glad for ting jeg gjør for henne. Dette gir meg så mye at jeg nesten blir avhengig av å gjøre henne glad.

Jeg blir direkte "hocked" på den responsen hun gir meg.

Det er ikke noe sexuelt, men hvordan hun gir meg en god selvfølelse. Dette er hva Norske kvinner ikke har gitt meg.

Dere forventer at "klart han gjør det for meg og gir av og til en TAKK" .

Sexuelt

Sexuelt er en Thai dame bedre. Det er heller ikke noe hun gjør i sengen. Men den følelsen hun gir deg som mann.

Jeg føler meg som den beste elskeren i verden, pga responsen fra Thai jente.

Hun er mye mer som en "kosete katt" som gir deg en god selvfølelse at du strekker til og at hun setter pris på deg som partner.

Jeg selv mener også at Thai jenter tar bedre vare på seg selv i forhold til Norske damer.

Dem har fastere kropp og har flott rumpe.

Thai jenter er mer feminine og da gir utav en bedre tanke på hvordan vi menn skal oppføre oss.

Jeg tenker da på at Norske damer har " forvirret" oss men med hvilken rolle vi skal ha. Rollen med en Thai dame er helt klar.

Du vet hvordan du skal være mann !

Høres merkelig ut, men jeg tror flere menn i dag er direkte forvirret på hvordan dem skal oppføre seg med Norske jenter.

Denne frustrasjonen kommer som følge av at Norske damer er krav store og gir dårlig resons tilbake til oss menn.

• Spør dere selv, til Jul, Bursdag osv hva krever du av din mann?
  
• Nytt hus og bil er en selvfølge
  
• Siste mote må dekkes
  
• Jaget med å få det perfekte livet,perfekte huset, bilen , barn osv osv
  

Dette er en STOR grunn til at menn velger Thai dame. Dem krever ikke at du hele tiden skal få alt perfekt.

Menn får da den tilbake meldingen at man kan senke skulderne mer med Thai en med Norsk dame.

Det å få STOR respons for veldig lite vil gi ønske om å gjøre mer for din Thai jente.

Feks , hjelpe min kone med å lage en enkel epost. Hun gir meg et kyss på kinnet og sier takk på Norsk å ler.

• Denne responsen trigger meg til å løfte baken opp av sofaen og sette Ølen i fra meg. Og småløpe bort for å hjelpe henne.
  

 

Jeg selv synes Thai damer er spennende og eksotiske.

De flotte øynene, flotte kropper og nydelig hår. Men også måten disse damene flørter med oss menn.

Det å få en respons som gir deg god selvfølelse er helt utrolig. Dette har jeg aldri fått hos noen Norsk dame.

Når jeg er sammen med min kone tar jeg husarbeidet. Jeg vasker kopper og vasker gulvet og vasker vinduer.

Jeg legger på sengen osv osv.Og jg har intet i mot å gjøre dette for henne.

Når jobben er gjort blir hun så glad og gir meg så god respons at jeg blir direkte forelsket i henne på nytt.

Dette er hvordan det er å ha en god Thai dame.

En norsk jente ville si:

" Du har lagt sengteppe på en slik å slik måte" og det er krøllete. Hele tiden finne feil slik at du må endre deg til hennes krav."

Dette gir oss menn en dårlig selvfølelse, til slutt gir vi opp og tilfredstille deres høye krav.

Og setter oss ned med en Øl i neven og ser tippekampen.

 

For hvis vi først skal få kjeft av dere norske damer " så la det være noe å kjefte over som vi forstår".

Vi gir da direkte F.. i å tilfredstille dere fordi vi aldri kan oppnå det dere ønsker. Da er det bedre å ha det behagelig med den kalde Ølen i neven.

Ute på byen.

Når vi er ute å spiser tar hun alltid ansvar for meg. Bestiller mat som ikke er for sterkt for meg.

Er direkte "Gentle dame" med meg (Likestilling)

Hun varter meg opp og ser meg inn i øynene mens vi spiser. Faktisk føler jeg at hun flørter med meg når vi spiser middag.

Hun spør var det god mat. Og vil du ha mer.

Hun legger også opp maten på fatet til meg. Og stryker meg på kinnet.

Og sier " My plumpy husband enjoy this food very much"

Det at hun faktisk sier at jeg er litt lubben blir til en flørt og gir meg en god selvfølelse.

 

En norsk dame ville sagt.

"Nå er du blitt feit , nå må du holde deg unna softisen på en stund." Noe styking på kinnet ? GLEM DET.

 

Og jeg har nå vært gift med henne i 3 år nå.

Dette er grunnen til at jeg mener at Thaijenter er bedre en Norske damer.

Det blir selvfølgelig flere grunner. Men vil ikke legge alle mine følelser ut på nettet.

A)

STADIG FLERE EKTEFELLER FRA ANDRE LAND

Kilde: http://www.settutenfra.net/web/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=109:ekteskap&catid=1:samfunn&Itemid=3

B)

Spørsmål til dere som har hentet Thai-damer til Norge.

http://debatt.sol.no/content/sporsmal-til-dere-som-har-hentet-thai-damer-til-norge-0

Her vil jeg legge til hvor respektløst Norsk dame opptrer..

"Hentet Thai dame" - Jeg synes kommentaren viser holdningen til Norske jenter.

 

c) Enda litte bitte granne flere opplysninger om en generell thai-dame:

http://delirium.vgb.no/tag/thailand/

" Thai-damer er av natur flørtende og sjarmerende vesener. Vi er ofte høflige og venneligstilte når vi til og med avviser menn."

Faktisk så mener jeg personlig at alle norske menn kan droppe alt som heter selvtillit-kursing her i Norge ; ta  heller ta en tur til Thailand med en kompis for å høste inn selvtillitt gjennom all den smilingen og flørtingen thailandske damer gjør naturlig!

En norsk mann får mye selvtillit for penga av å være i Thailand og bare være rundt thailandske damer, fordi vi lar mennene få være seg selv!

Veldig sjeldent jeg har hørt at en nordmann ikke får napp hos en thaidame etter én uke i THailand, for norske menn er automatisk hot-stuff i Thailand bare ved å være norsk! !

Mitt motto: Thailand er en fin selvtillits-kur mot enhver usikker norsk mann! All den thailandske selvtillitten (og alle smilene!) smitter over på ham og styrker hans persona!

 

Kommentar Ingeniøren:

GOD SAGT FRA EN NORSK MANN !

Tips til norske damer les disse opplysningene og spør deg selv hvordan du behandler din mann. Gir du han god selvfølelse og selvtilitt?

Eller er du dominat og skal ha han til å utføre dine oppgaver etter din pipe?

Da skal du ikke lure på hvorfor han stikker til Thailand.

 

d) For å vise hvor komplisert Norske damer er blitt vil jeg vise til denne artikkelen.

I Oslo finnes det et titall datingcoacher som tar opptil 40.000 for å lære bort teknikker for å lykkes bedre på sjekkemarkedet.

http://oslopuls.aftenposten.no/byliv/article543324.ece

 

Kommentar ingeniøren:

Hva i alle dager er dette ?

Må man gå kurs nå for å forstå dere Norske damer. Er det videregående også? .

"Jeg har master grad på Norske damer " Kurs ?

Nei, akkurat dette viser at dette er totalt unaturlig.

Dere Norske damer er blitt for vanskelig å forstå. Og de som drar til Thailand gidder rett og slett ikke å forstå hva dere vil.

Bruke 40 000 kr for å forstå hva dere vil.

Nei det blir aldri å skje med denne karen. Og jeg tror jeg snakker for alle menn som er sammen med Thai akkurat nå. Norske kvinner er ikke verd de 40 000 kronene.

Dette viser akkurat dette jaget som er med Norske damer. Dere blir aldri fornøyde og skal hele tiden oppleve spenning og nytt.

Aldri fornøyd med hvordan menn er.

Kravstore dere, NEI dere er ikke det nei

 

Det finnes selvfølgelig en bakside med Thaidamer:

1100 horer i Oslo

http://pub.nettavisen.no/nettavisen/innenriks/article196356.ece

Og det er her jeg opprettet denne bloggen. Da for å vise hvilke Thaidamer som man skal styre unna.

ET GODT TIPS. NORDØST THAILAND - ISAAN bakgrunn. Hufffffff

 

Her er reglene du bør følge om du ønsker å gifte deg med ei Thaijente.

Kilde: http://www.thaipitstop.com/blog/?p=317

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1 : Om du ønsker en Thailandsk kone, ikke bli en sexturist. Finn en thaijente i ditt eget hjemland eller ta kontakt med et byrå som kan gi deg pålitelige kildehnvisninger. Om du finner drømmedama via et byrå, få en privatdetektiv i Thailand til å sjekke henne. Det er din eneste måte til å sjekke om det er en Thailandsk ektemann eller kjæreste med i bildet.

2 : Om du drar til Thailand for å se etter en kone, ikke oppsøk gogo barer eller andre plasser med prostituerte. Du ville ikke dratt på leting etter en prostituert å gifte deg med i ditt hjemland, så ikke gjør det her.

3 : Ikke, under noen omstendighet, gift deg med en barjente. Giftemål med barjenter ender i katastrofe. Alle som har giftet seg med en barjente og tror de lever i et lykkelig forhold har bare ikke oppdaget sannheten enda.

4 : Om du gifter deg med en barjente, ikke klag når det går til helvete!

5 : Om du er en sexturist vil du ikke makte å ha et lykkelig forhold, med noen jente. Aksepter det og fortsett med å være en sexturist.

6 : Gift deg men en jente som er så lik din sosiale status, økonomiske status, utdannelse og alder som mulig.

7 : Om du gifter deg med en Thaijente, bosett deg i Thailand kun om du har mulighet til å skaffe en jobb hvor du tjener mere enn det du gjør i ditt hjemland.

8 : Om du bosetter deg i Thailand, lær språket, lær om landets historie og kultur. Se på lokale TV sendinger og lokale filmer. Hør på Thaimusikk. Den eneste måten du i det hele tatt kan ha en liten sjanse til å skjønne hvordan en Thai tenker og resonnerer er om du forsøker å skjønne deres kultur.

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What I Know About Isaan Girls

 

http://www.stickmanweekly.com/Reader2007/reader4593.htm

 

By Aussie Mike

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What I've learned from interacting with Isaan Girls from the Country I Love-THAILAND

 

The most important thing in Thailand is money. Not just for riches but for the face it brings. Thais will use whatever resources they have to secure this money.

 

The ruling class will use their power, the police will use their authority, the men will use their superior gender, and the Isaan girls will use the only commodity they have – their dark skin, beautiful bodies, and silky black hair that farang find so attractive.

 

The girls know it and their mothers know it to.

 

The poor Isaan girls don't stand a chance from the moment they are born.

 

They are shunned as second class citizens by their villages because of their gender, and third class citizens by the rest of Thailand because of the region they were born in. Oh!

 

But the face they receive when they send home the bacon earned by prostituting themselves to the comparatively wealthy Farangs.

 

And because of the face their families receive by this increased wealth their mothers turn a blind eye and encourage them to send more. And the girls become the mothers.

 

And this attitude is ingrained so deep in their culture that it could take centuries of mixing with the Farang for it to change. And it is only by mixing with the Farang that this change will manifest, for it will not come from within Thailand itself as the ruling class and hierarchy have nothing to gain and everything to lose.

 

So the beautiful, innocent, intelligent but forcibly uneducated Isaan girls head for the City of Angels and the beach resorts of Thailand in search of face and fortune.

 

And the Farang are there in numbers to greet them.

 

And the Farang that are there to greet them, not so much the ones that have been to the Land of Smiles many times and survived, and not the ones with a hard heart, but the ones fresh off the plane who think they have just stumbled into paradise, they are the real victims.

 

For the Isaan girl think we Farangs are stupid like a water buffalo with a pull ring in its nose. And we can be. It is our by our egos, our fascination, and our lust that we are led.

 

Someone used the analogy that a Thai sees a Farang as an ATM walking, and it fits perfectly. All the Isaan girl has to do is find out the PIN code for a particular machine and pull out the money. And won't their blood sucking families be fond of their second class members then. Now I don't want to go and tar all the families with the same brush as there is always an exception to the rule, but there is a rule of thumb to go by.

 

And the Farang become the victim. For the attention we get is delicious and we are captivated by it and in love with it and our little heads will follow the pied piper's tune and we are deliriously happy and dance in the street. And when it's time to go back to our countries we leave our shattered hearts scattered in Thailand while our body and minds are at home doing whatever we can to return ASAP. If one can survive their initial and enraptured visit to The Land of Smiles and eventually and objectively see it for what it is before becoming entangled in the deceit, then one could possibly be wiser for the experience and enjoy their future trips to Thailand. For once Thailand is in your blood it will forever be calling out to you. You could, and many do, visit Thailand, don't bite into the apple, and leave with no desire to come back, honeymooners, couples, retirees etc. But a male farang without a travelling companion is usually changed forever.

 

ORDER OF IMPORTANCE FOR A ISAAN GIRL (with little exception) is:-

1. Money

2. mother and Family

3. face

4. Thai Boyfriend and Friends

5. Possessions

6. Farang

 

There is no set order of importance for Farang it all depends on our personality and needs. They could satisfy any one desire or combination of the following:-

Sex – you got it Variety – you got it Sexual experience – you got it

Romance – you got it Short term companionship – you got it

Relationship – you got it Holiday fun and good times – you got it

 

We can have whatever we desire – AND THAT'S THE CATCH.

 

The Isaan girl can and will adapt to whatever we desire - FOR A PRICE.

 

Some girls are better at providing one particular need and some another. There is still some compatible selection process involved.

 

And the Farang maybe very sincere and often is, but there is little sincerity on the Thai girl's part, only on the surface level.

 

This is the point where a Farang can and mostly do become the victim. Even the experienced may find themselves caught in the spider's web. It is a well used cliché but it is a "tangled web they weave".

 

Now I'm not saying that the Isaan girl is wicked or evil.

 

On the contrary most in their own way have their ethics and morals to guide them.

 

They are mostly trying to be the best they can according to their conditioning using the only resource they have, and I would not lift even a little finger to harm them in any way. They come out the other end scarred enough as it is. It is just a different culture, "east is east and west is west".

 

If we allow ourselves to interact below the surface level and become emotionally involved then it is very dangerous waters we tread and some of us barely keep our head above water and make it out intact. But the post traumatic experience (it's traumatic) we are left with can take months (or years) of soul searching and counseling to recover. But we may come through the other side a better man.

 

Am I being dramatic? Maybe. For some who have a fortress around the heart will wonder what I'm going on about. Others who tend to give a bit of themselves will know exactly what I'm talking about.

 

The Thai girl is really only interested in us for the money. Sorry but we are kidding ourselves if we believe otherwise. They are not attracted by our looks, our muscles, our age, our dress, our goodness or our badness, only our wealth. Sometimes we will yield to them a hansum amount of money over a short period of time, sometimes a little more over a longer period, and sometimes a large amount over a long period of time. I karumba! The jackpot. And some girls, depending on their acquired skills, hit the jackpot concurrently many times.

 

BE CAREFUL

 

What I have learned about the country I love is to stay on the surface. Don't dive in.

 

If you do dive in just splash around a little and get back to the surface where the sun is shining.

 

Don't dive in too deep where it's dark, and not too long, or when you surface the boat may have already sailed and you'll be left to fend for yourself in the open waters. For make no mistake: -

 

"If we laugh the Thai will laugh with us, but if we cry we cry alone".

 

I love Thailand. I keep coming back for holidays where my senses are always alive. I am fascinated, not by its history, but by its culture and people. I love the Isaan girls. I suspect they're doing more good for their country than what fellow Thais and visitors realise. God bless the little girl in each and every one of them.

 

 

 

Stickman's thoughts:

 

I love the second to laugh paragraph. Brilliant analogy!

The author can be contacted at : aussiemike@live.com.

 

The publisher of this website, NOT this article, can be contacted at: stickmanbangkok@gmail.com.

Foreign husbands flock to Thailand's impoverished Isaan (Feature)

By Peter Janssen Oct 28, 2009, 5:04 GMT

Source: http://www.monstersandcritics.com/news/asiapacific/features/article_1509741.php/Foreign-husbands-flock-to-Thailand-s-impoverished-Isaan-Feature

 

 

Khon Kaen, Thailand - Isaan, as Thailand's 19 north-eastern provinces are called, is the country's poorest region.

 

Degraded soil, a lack of irrigation and dense population have combined to make Isaan the country's fountainhead for factory workers, housemaids, bus boys and bar girls.

 

But the region is not without its attractions, as an estimated 100,000 foreign husbands will testify.

 

'When I came up here 17 years ago, I thought, this place is brilliant,' said Briton Martin Wheeler, 47.

 

'In terms of social infrastructure, everyone has a house, everyone has land, and the lifestyle is unbelievable,' he said, describing his adopted home in Kam Pla Lai village in Khon Kaen, 350 kilometres north-east of Bangkok.

 

A former construction worker from London, Wheeler married his Thai wife Rojana in Bangkok and moved to her home town in Khon Kaen when she became pregnant with their first child.

 

'My wife warned me about Isaan being the poorest place in Thailand, but I thought, 'If this is poor, I'll have some of it,'' Wheeler said.

 

A London University graduate with distinction in Latin, Wheeler started out as a labourer and farmer, learned the Isaan dialect and eventually became an assistant to a rural-development project, working in community building and promoting self-sufficiency agriculture as an alternative to single-crop farming.

 

As Kam Pla Lai became known as a success story in rural development, Wheeler has become a popular figure and is often recruited by the Thai government to talk to farmers and civil servants, using Isaan slang, about the benefits of diversifying crops, self-sufficiency and wholesome country living.

 

'My primary point is you have to accept two truisms - most people are not going to get rich, and most will not get highly educated,' Wheeler said. 'If you accept these two truisms, the countryside has a lot of offer.'

 

Another message is closer to home.

 

'For the rural people now, the answer (to poverty) is to get your daughter married to a foreign husband,' Wheeler said. 'But a lot of the Westerners who come over here are like me - we're not the cream of the crop.'

 

Westerners have been marrying Isaan girls for decades, starting during the Vietnam War when more than 100,000 US military men were stationed in Thailand, including three air bases in the North-East.

 

The bases attracted bars and bar girls. Some local women became 'rented wives' for the servicemen.

 

After the war, the GIs were replaced by European and American tourists, for whom Thai ladies remained a major attraction.

 

Although the Thai government has few statistics on the number of cross-culture marriages, there is plenty of evidence that they are on the rise, especially in Isaan.

 

Increasingly, academics and economists have studied the social phenomenon.

 

According to a study carried out by the government's National Economic and Social Development Board (NESDB), as of 2003 there were 19,594 women in north-east Thailand married to Westerners.

 

The migration of these mostly elderly, retired men to the region had generated 10.5 billion baht (308 million dollars) in spending and created 578,609 jobs, according to the NESDB's estimates.

 

Buapan Promphakping, an associate professor in humanities at Khon Kaen University, estimates the actual number of cross-culture couples in the 19 north-eastern provinces as closer to 100,000, or about 3 per cent of the region's households.

 

The influx of comparatively wealthy Westerners, sometimes amounting to 100 foreigners in one small village, has had an obvious impact on Isaan society - creating a huge income gap between cross- culture couples and villagers and fueling more materialism and consumerism, according to Buapan's studies.

 

And the trend hasn't been good for Thai men.

 

'Nowadays in the villages, parents will say to their daughters:

 

If your Thai husband is no good you can divorce him and find a farang (foreign) husband,' Buapan said. 'So you have to behave now.'

 

For Western men, especially elderly ones retiring on modest pensions, Isaan women have won a reputation as good housewives and nurses, while the local economy offers them a standard of living their incomes couldn't buy them in the West.

 

'It's a win-win situation, but it's not a love story,' Wheeler said. 'It's finance, and it's sex. It's a mirror of what's wrong with the West, not what's wrong with Thailand.'

Informasjon - Isaan

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Isan (Isan/Thai: อีสาน
[ʔiːsǎːn]; also written as Isaan, Isarn, Issan, or Esarn;^[1])

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isan

"Marriage and courtship in Isan still mainly follows strict tradition, especially in rural areas, and most young women are married by the time they are 20 years old. Many girls, in spite of the legal requirement, marry as young as fourteen to escape poverty, as usually marriage is associated with a dowry paid by the husband to the bride's family.

A dowry will not normally be less than 40,000 Thai baht, and according to the status of the bride and/or her family, can often greatly exceed 300,000 baht.

Problemet er at Isaan folket bruker SIN SOD på en annen måte en resten av folket i Thailand.

Referer til regler for SIN SOD .Se bloggen.

Isaan folket tar pengene fra brudeparet. Mens Thaifolket gir dette til brudeparet, da slik som her i NORGE.(Bryllypsgaver)

Dermed virker det for flere hvite menn (Farange) at man betaler for en kone.

Dette er dermed utrykket kjøpe bruder.

" Ref Wikipedia

The cultural separation from Central Thailand, combined with the region's poverty and the typically dark skin of its people, has encouraged a considerable amount of discrimination against the people of Isan from non-ethnic Thais of Chinese descent.^{[citation needed]} Even though many Isan people now work in the cities rather than in the fields, many hold lower-status jobs such as construction workers, stall vendors and tuk-tuk taxi drivers, and discriminatory attitudes have been known to persist with many Thai-Chinese inhabitants. Nevertheless, Isan food and music have both been enthusiastically adopted and adapted to the tastes of the rest of the country."

Education

Education is well provided by the government in terms of numbers of establishments and is supplemented in the larger cities by the private sector (mostly Catholic schools and international schools). Following the national pattern of education in Thailand, there are primary (elementary) schools in all larger villages and (tambon) capitals, with secondary (high) schools to Grade 12 (approximately age 18) in the district (amphoe) towns.

Many other secondary schools provide education only to Grade 9, while some combined school provide education from Grade 1 through Grade 9. Rural schools are generally less well equipped than the schools in the large towns and cities and the standard of instruction, particularly for the English language, is much lower. Many children of poorer families leave school after Grade 6 (age 12) to work on the farms.

Ingeniøren sier:

"Og her er problemet til dette folket. Dem slutter for skolen er ferdig. Og løsningen for å få penger blir da prostitusjon."

A number move to areas of dense or tourist populations to work in the service industry.

Og dem gjøre hva ?

Many primary schools also operate their own websites^[3] and almost all schoolchildren in Isan, at least from junior high school age,^[4] are now (2008) largely computer literate for basic programs: they are well adept in the use of word-processing, layout of flyers, brochures and birthday cards, and simple, digital photo enhancement software.

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http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/lofiversion/index.php/t229586.html

Why are Khmer hookers from Issan so common in Pattaya?







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Mann omkom på motorsykkel i Thailand


Mann+fra+Drøbak+omkom+i+MC-ulykke+i+Thailand


Dette er en av grunnene til at jeg alltid tar taxi i thailand.
Forsøkte en gang å kjøre i Bangkok. Aldri mer.

Det er ikke slik vi kjører i Norge.

Leserinnlegg:

Har en historie til deg som du kan bruke på bloggen din. fikk høre den i dag
og er skikkelig sjokkert !!


Er en Isan jente som er bor sammen en kar her i oslo som tar vare på henne og kjøper de tingene hun vil ha.

Men hun har registert seg på et dating sted som singel der hun søker etter kjæreste og hun får da svar fra intenanede menn som søker en kjæreste.

Og ikke vet at hun allerede er i et samboerforhold som hun ikke har tenkt til å gå ut av.

Hun forteller at når hun skulle på ferie til thailand.

Nå så sa hun til den ene karen, at hun ikke hadde penger til billetten.

Og fikk da penger til billett, en annen kar stilte opp med lommepenger for henne da han syntes synd på henne.

Hun ville pusse opp huset til foreldrene og fikk da 150.000 bath av sin samboer til
dette selv om hun er i full jobb og har penger til dette selv.


Jeg spurte henne om hvorfor hun da ber om penger fra andre menn når hun er i
et forhold og får da et sjokkerende svar tilbake...

Når de er så dumme og gir meg penger så tar jeg de gjerne jeg

.... Men du lover de jo at du skal være med de og derfor de gir deg ting da de håper de får en kjæreste.

Men hun har ingen problemer med å juge da hun vil ha de tingene hun vil ha og
hvis det blir å gå over noen menn for dette så så hun ikke det som et problem.




Beviser jo klart det du skriver på bloggen:)

Buying property in Thailand is tricky, risky but may prove very rewarding.

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An exciting opportunity or a legal minefield? In fact it is both. Many foreigners take a chance.

The Thai property market is a closed one. Prices are low and many have bought despite the risks. Property in Thailand may yet be a canny move.

Compared to western values, property prices in Thailand are very low. This is due to the level of economic development, a catastrophic depression that hit Thailand in 1997 but, most importantly the country's land laws which radically limit foreign ownership of Thai property. Nevertheless, there are some exciting property investment opportunities in areas such as Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket, where land and property prices are increasing nicely despite the global downturn. Condominiums in Bangkok and holiday properties in key centres frequented by foreigners have good rental potential. If you are a foreigner and thinking of retirement in Thailand, then the prospect of a beautiful property at a fraction of the price in an exotic climate can be simply irresistible.

Caution is the watchword with Thai property and not just financial


Familiarise yourself with the property market and Thai laws governing foreign ownership of property and investment in Thailand, and then think it over more before deciding to proceed with a property investment. The old property rule that 'the day you buy is the day you sell' also certainly applies in Thailand. Be careful of whatever property investment you might be proposing to get yourself into. Thailand's foreign ownership laws in particular Thai regulations regarding property ownership drive the market. One can describe the property laws in Thailand as designed to protect Thailand from being 'bought out' by foreign interests.

Hire an independent lawyer to handle your Thai property investment

Certainly never buy property in Thailand unless you have the services of an independent lawyer. Independent means that your lawyer is not linked to those selling the property. All Thai property transactions are in Thai and you are truly at the mercy of your advisors in any transaction. We would also warn all foreigners about entering into a property investment without first doing the homework. This includes, but is not limited to, taking 2-3 legal opinions before hiring a lawyer to handle property investment. In addition to checking out the title to your property, you should also make sure that your site map of the property is correct and that this corresponds with local government files.

Two ways to deal with ownership restrictions on property in Thailand

Firstly, foreigners can purchase condominiums and apartments subject to a restriction on the percentage ownership of each scheme. Aside from this, there are two popular ways which foreigners in Thailand have used to buy land and property. One is to set up a company to purchase the land or a property. This can be a house as well as a commercial property and land. Foreigners cannot own more than 49% with the largest shareholding possible being 39%. However, Thai shareholders can hold shares but these may be non-voting giving control to the foreigners.

30 year lease on your Thai property with an option

The second option is to enter into a 30 year lease on the property with the option to renew for another 30 years. Foreigners can enter into such leases and it is also possible to combine this with option one in a hybrid approach. There are property taxes and legal requirements also to be considered. Any prospective foreign purchaser of a Thai property should talk this through in detail with his/her lawyer in Thailand and allow for the legal costs involved in addition to the price of the property. These routes have been successful up to now in Thailand but the Thai government, in recent times, has been looking closely at foreign ownership of companies and property with a keen eye to reform of the law so that abuses do not occur.

One way not to buy a property in Thailand

One of the other methods of purchasing a house in has led to countless horrors stories from foreigners all over Thailand and elsewhere. It is to buy the property in the name of your Thai wife or Thai girlfriend.
Obviously, the horror stories develop when the relationships break down. Foreigners who purchased property in this fashion and who failed to secure their position through a lease or contract have been known to be evicted.

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The Thai Scorpion And The Western Turtle

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I have been reading a lot of submissions about how unbelievable it is that western men fall for Thai bar girls and are willing to invest hard-earned money to ensure their future happiness. These submissions then go on to give "good" advice on how to avoid this problem. This is all well and good, and I certainly agree with most of the advice. However, I am always surprised at the "shock" these writers express that men can be so stupid. I submit that it is a wonder that western men do not leave their families and sell their homes to live in Thailand much more often than they do. A quick look at the facts confirms what I am saying.

Yes, we all know that a western man and a Thai bar girl enter into a business arrangement and that's the way both parties should abide. But what is that arrangement? It is to perform an act (sex) that is normally reserved for couples that are very much in love. As much as they try, one party forgets the contract and they go and truly enjoy the experience. What happens when it is time to part ways? Do you just cast away someone that you may now have true intimate feelings for?

Another factor is environment. The western man has lived most of his life in a safe, boring, and predictable place called Farangland. It is usually cold and the women even colder. All of a sudden, he is in a warm place with a huge variety of sights and sounds all around him, and he has just walked a block from his hotel! The people are friendly and the sexy girls in the bar are even friendlier. Why wouldn't he think he is in a new reality? The girl may also be in a new state of reality. This guy is different. He is fairly fit, nice, and has bothered to take a shower before coming to bed. Also, he is not staying at the Nana Hotel but at the JW Marriot. He has opened the front door for her and let her order anything she wants from room service. Maybe this one is different from all the rest and is the one to keep. Unlike the western man, the Thai bar girl has had these feelings before and knows how to move beyond them.

What happens next is the old story of the turtle and the scorpion. The scorpion complains about how bad life is on this side of the river. If only there was a good-hearted turtle to take her across, she would be eternally grateful. The turtle, knowing the scorpion's reputation as he has read Stick's web site, is wary of this request. But after much cajoling, Thai food, beer, and of course, great sex, the scorpion and turtle set off on their journey across the river to the happiness of the other shore. Just as they approach, the scorpion stings the turtle and both drown to their fate.

Why would the scorpion put the sting to her liberator and benefactor? Why would she prefer the life of a Bangkok hooker to the ease of living in relative comfort with a western man? The answer lies in the scorpion's response as they both drown, "because I'm a scorpion and stinging is what I do." It doesn't make sense, especially from the turtle's viewpoint, but that is what Thai bar girls do.

The reasons why Thai bar girls prefer this destiny are many and they have been well documented on this web site. But in the beginning, both parties exist in a state of unreality to accommodate a business deal. The fact that one or more parties allows this state to continue beyond its useful limit should not be surprising to anyone. Remember that great

looking MG Midget you took for a test ride and then bought without opening the hood? For a few days you rode around feeling great. You swore to all of your friends it was best car on the road, right up until the day it died in that roadside ditch. Even then, you put thousands into repair and still it broke down regularly. It was a great looking car that couldn't stay on the road, and it broke your heart when you sold it for a fraction of what you paid for it.

And for a new found friend "R" that I met through this site: mate, you've been stung! Ditch the scorpion and try to make it safely to shore! After the sting wears off, life can be beautiful again. And for those of you telling R to keep swimming with this stinging scorpion, shame on you!

Stickman's thoughts:

Oh, they sting all right!

 

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